Better photos,

better matches

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Your photos are your first impression.
Your profile tells your story.

If you want to attract great matches, you need to show up as your best self.
Show how you live. What you value. Who you really are.

Because what you show… is who you attract.

And yes, quality matters.
Not a blurry selfie. Not a hidden face. Not five versions of the same night out.
You need clear, high-quality photos that clearly show you, your life and your vibe.

Follow these 9 tips to raise your profile and attract people who match your lifestyle.

A collage of three photos of a woman with long dark hair, all wearing black outfits, sitting or posing in different chairs, with blue check marks on each image.

#1 START WITH ONE CLEAR PHOTO OF JUST YOU.

Looking into the camera, face visible, good lighting. It’s your calling card and how your date will recognise you when you meet.

#2 MAKE YOUR FACE EASY TO SEE.

Person taking a mirror selfie with a colorful phone case featuring characters, wearing a black beret and dark clothing, outdoors with blurred vehicles in the background.

Skip hats, sunglasses and side angles. Let people connect with the real you.

#3 NO MIRROR SELFIES. EVER.

They cover your face, kill the vibe and make you look cheap. It’s awkward, low-effort and never a good look.

#4 MIX SOLO AND SOCIAL SHOTS.

Photos with friends show more than just your social life. They signal trust, likability and that others enjoy being around you. Your friends help tell your story.

Two women making funny faces, sticking out their tongues and pouting, sitting close together in front of a wooden background.

#5 SHOW DIFFERENT SIDES OF YOUR LIFE.

Photos of you running, cooking, traveling or being creative don’t just add variety, they help attract your type.

#6 USE RECENT PHOTOS.

Old photos set the wrong expectations. Aim for pictures from the last 6–12 months so your profile feels current and real.

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#7 GO FOR HIGH QUALITY PHOTOS.

Use bright, natural light. Make sure your face is sharp and the background clean. Poor lighting, grainy images, or messy shots won’t help you get approved or get a match.

#8 ADD SOME WARMTH.

Smiling, laughing, with pets, with people. The energy you give is what you'll attract.

Woman relaxing outdoors on a lounge chair, wearing sunglasses with her arm behind her head, under clear sunny weather.

#9 KEEP IT RESPECTFUL.

No nudity, weapons, or anything sketchy. This is about showing your best side.